Forgiveness

Forgiveness is such a strong and personal issue and like so many ppl dont like 2 forgive those that hurt them..
I read this in a Leadership Files thingo (ryan and maryka will know what i'll talking bout!)

"Forgiveness is the key to healing. Forgive people before before they apologise. Even though it doesn't seem fair. You want revenge. But forgive them. Let it go. Be bigger than your offenders. Forgive everybody everything they've ever done against you everyday and healing and health are yours."

This is so true like people hold gruges against those that hurt them, but in the end ur only hurting urself because the other person probably didnt even relise they hurt u. So many ppl r holding onto the bad things that happened and the ppl that hurt them.. they want them 2 see just how much they have screwed up their lives.. but we just have 2 learn 2 b the bigger person and say look i 4give u..
it just relises something in ur heart and u feel alot beter. Some ppl have the worst of things done 2 them and they r strong enough in themselves 2 say i 4give that person..

as a christian i believe that 4giving ppl is the right thing 2 do and when u do relise that anger and hurt u actually feel so much better then if u held onto that pain.. if u 4give someone it doesnt mean that they have 'won' and it doesnt mean that u 4get wat they did but in a way it helps u..

but yeh this is a pretty random post but i was a bit confussed when writing it so bear with me!! comment ur thought.. :)